“Punishing others is punishing work.”
—John Heider, The Tao of Leadership
How often do you play the role of judge or jury in your personal or professional life?
How often are you on the receiving end of judgement and criticism?
What are the benefits and costs of being right and making others wrong?
In the arenas of organizational leadership, criminal justice, and even the family unit itself, punishment is rarely effective in controlling behavior, and fear is a horrible teaching strategy. It is exhausting, and sucks the life out of everyone involved.
What alternative and empowering strategies might you use to produce the behaviors and attitudes that will benefit your world?