“Virtue is not left to stand alone. He who practice it will have neighbors.”
—attributed to Confucius
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How do you stack up as a good neighbor or close friend?
Consider rating yourself from one to ten – with one being low and ten being high – regarding the following attributes of the word, virtue:
How can and will you attract more professional and personal friends and neighbors to yourself by living an even more virtuous life?
“A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is putting on its shoes.”
—Charles Spurgeon, 19th Century English Preacher
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Over the past year or so, most of us have become aware of the dramatic increase in “Fake News.” During the 2016 U.S. Presidential election, various news outlets went to considerable lengths to disentangle the outright lies and half truths, and get to the facts.
Unfortunately, on many occasions, the truth seems far less interesting than the fake news. Since all media outlets seek greater attention and higher ratings, the path to the truth can be slow and laborious.
Where and on what matters can and will you “lace up” the truth in your personal or professional communities, to bring far greater integrity to the world?
“Live in such a way that you would not be ashamed to sell your parrot to the town gossip.”
—Will Rogers, 20th Century American Cowboy Humorist
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Did you know that parrots experience peer pressure? Just like humans, they desire to fit in with others in their group. This is one reason they learn to copy the sounds and language of the people around them.
This morning at the gym one of the other regulars was talking with a trainer. I was shocked by the level of vulgarity, back-stabbing, and general gossip in their conversation, especially being in a public place.
How do your actions and use of language stand up to the parrot test? What adjustments might you make to have the town gossip say only good things, or at the very least, say nothing about you?
“Don’t ever stray away from yourself to get closer to someone else.”
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Imagine you are shopping for a new pair of shoes, a suit, or an outfit. In the process, you consider color, style, price, and of course, the fit of each item. When all the factors are optimized, we usually make the purchase. If the factors don’t fit, we usually save our money and keep looking.
What does it mean to stray away from yourself? Who are the people that best fit with your most authentic self? How often do you experience relationships with others that, on a gut level, seem to miss that genuine connection?
Where, currently or in the past, have you strayed from your values, beliefs, and priorities to get closer to others, even when your gut raises a red flag?
How can you use the same values, beliefs, and priorities to attract and engage the people who are the best “fit” in your personal and professional lives?
“The first impression may be the only impression.”
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In our fast-paced world, we generate first impressions in a matter of seconds—sometimes nano-seconds.
What impression do people have of you through your appearance, your spoken words, and even your letters, emails, texts, or social media posts?
What efforts can you make today to assure that people get the very best impression of you? As today’s quote suggests, it may be the only one they have.