“Compassion is to share the pain without sharing the suffering.”

—Shinzen Young, American meditation teacher

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True compassion isn’t about absorbing another’s sorrow, but about being present and supportive.

When someone we care about is hurting, our instinct is often to take on their suffering. Instead, compassion invites us to listen deeply, offer comfort, and walk beside them through their pain.

We acknowledge their struggles without becoming overwhelmed ourselves.

In this way, we become a source of strength and hope, rather than additional weight.

Compassion is a gentle balance — feeling with, not for, another.

It’s a gift of presence, understanding, and love that uplifts the giver and the receiver, fostering healing and connection.

EXERCISE:

Who in your life is in need of compassionate support?

In what ways can you be with them and ease their burden without needing to carry their emotional weight?