Progress isn’t necessarily a fast friend

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Progress isn’t necessarily a fast friend.

—Stephen St. Amant, Author of the Savenwood Blog

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We glorify speed — quick fixes, overnight success,10x results — but real progress rarely rides that wave.

It’s slower, more deliberate, sometimes painfully patient. Progress whispers instead of shouts, testing how deeply you want the chance you claim what you chase.

The trouble is, we mistake velocity for value and activity for achievement.

But some of the most profound transformations — healing a relationship, reshaping a belief, rebuilding strength —move at the speed of trust and truth.

Progress isn’t a fast friend: it’s the one who stays after the crowd leaves, reminding you that growth doesn’t have to dazzle, it just simply must endure.

EXERCISE:

What areas of your life require greater patience, self-confrontation, and a willingness to crawl when your ego wants to fly?

Where in your world could you pursue greater wisdom through seasons not seconds?

With mindful awareness you can steer your life in any direction you choose.

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With mindful awareness you can steer your life in any direction you choose.

—Calm App Reflection

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You are not a drifting boat on Life’s ocean — you are the captain.

The waves will come, the storms will rage, but with mindful awareness as your compass, you decide where to steer.

Most people sail unconsciously, reacting to the weather rather than setting a course.

But awareness changes everything. It slows time, sharpens the senses, and gives you space to choose your words, your mood, your next move.

Imagine the power of noticing the moments before you speak, eat, or give up.

Every conscious breath is a chance to redirect your life.

Mindfulness isn’t passive — it make you the commander of your own vessel.

The question is: are you awake at the helm, or sleeping through the storm?

EXERCISE:

How often do you find yourself living on autopilot, driven by old stories, stale habits, and other people’s expectations?

How can you use mindfulness as a form of radical self-leadership to set your course toward better horizons?

Friday Review: Giving

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Friday Review: Giving

What are your thoughts and practices about Giving? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

“The charity that is a trifle to us can be precious to others.”

 

 

 

 

“In what ways do you give more to the world than you take?”

 

 

 

 

 

“You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.”

 

 

 

 

Bolts of lightning rarely change the world

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“Bolts of lightning rarely change the world, but erosion does.”

—Seth Godin, American author, marketing expert, entrepreneur

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Far too many of us fantasize about the big breakthrough, the viral post, the overnight success that “fixes” everything.

Meanwhile, the real magic is happening in the quiet, unsexy moments we keep overlooking.

  • It’s the daily walk when the couch or covers are calling
  • The honest conversation when silence would be easier
  • The extra rep, the kind work, the tiny risk you take today

These acts don’t look heroic, but they slowly carve new canyons in your life.

One small cut at a time, your habits are either sculpting your future or eroding it.

So, stop waiting for lightning! Be “erosion,” persistence, patience, impossible to ignore.

EXERCISE:

Three top resources that center on consistency, persistence, and building positive habits are Atomic Habits by James Clear, The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg, and The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy.

“Character is a proxy for quality.”

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“Character is a proxy for quality.”

—Author Unknown

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Character is more than a moral compass — it’s the invisible standard that determines the quality of everything we touch.

Just as craftsmanship reveals itself in the smallest details, our integrity shows up in how we handle moments no one sees.

Quality work, deep relationships, and lasting success all trace back to the inner fabric of who we are.

You can’t fake character; shortcuts eventually expose themselves.

When we choose honesty over ease and consistency over convenience, we refine the very essence of quality.

In a noisy world chasing quick wins, character remains the quiet craftsman shaping work that endures.

EXERCISE:

Consider reading “The Road to Character” by David Brooks. In this book Brooks explores “resume virtues” versus “eulogy virtues” and argues for a life built on humility, moral struggle, and service.

The universe does not offer financing

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“The universe does not offer financing.”

—Shane Parrish, Author of the Farnum Street Blog

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Today’s quote and post are taken directly from Shane’s blog post from Sunday 12/14/25. I hope it provokes your thinking about life as it did me:

“The universe does not offer financing. This is hard to accept because life trains us to expect the opposite. We are addicted to “buy now pay later.” You live in a house before you pay off the mortgage. Your get the degree before you pay off the loan. You eat the meal before you ask for the check.

We are conditioned to enjoy the benefits today and pay the cost tomorrow.

Achievement reverses the transaction. It requires full payment in advance (and regular payments forever). If you want a fit body, a calm mind, a healthy relationship, or financial independence, the cost is non-negotiable. You must do the work before you get the results.

This is why most people quit. They pay little, see nothing, and stop. They never make it far enough to see the first return arrive.”

EXERCISE:

Consider joining over one million readers by exploring more of Shane Parrish’s work. The tag line for this resource is “Think better, decided better, live better.”

The practice of meditation works by not working

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The practice of meditation works by not working and by simply tapping into what’s already here.

—Calm App Reflection

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Meditation seems strange at first. You sit, breathe, and ironically, try not to try.

Yet that’s the secret. The practice of meditation works by not working.

It’s not about fixing, improving, or reaching some blissful elsewhere.

It’s about noticing what’s already here: the breath, the hum of life, the quiet pulse of awareness that never left.

When you stop striving, you meet the part of yourself that doesn’t need to be changed. Your mind may resist, but that’s fine too. Just watch.

In the stillness beyond all effort, you tap into something limitless — your original state of being. Meditation isn’t an escape, it’s a homecoming.

EXERCISE:

Explore the practice of meditation in 2026 and discover how the practice and art of doing nothing can help you find everything.

Friday Review: Generosity

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Friday Review: Generosity

How can and will you demonstrate a generous spirit over the coming months? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

“One of the sanest, surest and most generous joys of life comes from being happy over the good fortune of others.”

 

 

 

“Live Simply, Love Generously, Speak Truthfully, Breathe Deeply, Do Your Best. Leave everything else to the powers above you.”

 

 

 

 

Every little bit helps.

 

 

 

 

Life is full of moments of frustration and disappointment

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“Life is full of moments of frustration and disappointment. Growth and maturity is learning to pull yourself out of a bad state faster.”

—James Clear, American Writer and Speaker

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Life is not defined by how rarely you get frustrated, but how quickly you refuse to stay there.

Today’s quote reminds us to own our reactions instead of worshiping our excuses.

It means noticing when we are spiraling and choose interruption over indulgence.

Break the pattern: move your body, change your environment, question the story you are telling yourself.

The goal is not to never fall, but to shorten the time between the fall and the rise.

Your future is quietly being decided in that gap.

EXERCISE:

When you feel the spike of disappointment, silently label it: “This is frustration, not failure.”

This creates a small gap between you and the emotion, which calms your nervous system and reduces the urge to lash out or shut down.

What are you still carrying that isn’t yours

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“What are you still carrying that isn’t yours and is weighing you down?”

—Rita S. Wilkins, lifestyle design expert

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Some of the heaviest things in life don’t show up on the bathroom scale.

They are worries, expectations, and “shoulds” that somehow ended up in your mental backpack without your permission.

Take a moment and imagine emptying that backpack onto a table. What’s in there that actually belongs to someone else?

  • A parent’s voice about who you should be?
  • A friend’s drama you keep replaying?
  • An ancient rule that says you must keep everyone happy?

EXERCISE:

Picture yourself picking up only what’s truly yours and leaving the rest in a nice neat “lost and found” pile.

You might notice you stand a little taller, walk a little lighter, and suddenly have more energy for the life that actually fits you!