“Art washes from the soul the dust of everyday life.”
—Pablo Picasso, 20th Century Spanish painter & sculptor
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The world is in great pain and could use some healing. Hardly a day goes by without many examples of suffering and stress.
My coaching conversations almost always include personal issues as well as professional priorities. Among the many strategies to calm down and cope with the stressors, a good number of individuals are seeking and engaging in artful expression, to wash away the dust in their souls. Cooking and baking work nicely in the Demp household!
Please reply to this post with the artful strategies you use to brighten your days.
Consider discussing this topic with friends, family, and others to help realize a more beautiful and soulful life.
FRIDAY REVIEW: ACCOUNTABILITY
What level of accountability do you hold, personally or professionally? Here are a few accountability-related posts you may have missed.
“Be sure to taste your words before you spit them out.”
“The next move is yours.”
“Quarrels would not last long if the fault were only on one side.”
“Today I will be happier than a bird with a french fry.”
Image from Unsplash by Caleb Martin
Close your eyes and picture the following:
- A bird with a french fry
- A squirrel with an acorn
- A dog with a bone
- A cat with some yarn
- A baby with a toy
- A football fan with a remote
- A kid with a cookie
Note that these examples involve an external/extrinsic source of happiness.
Venture within yourself to where the intrinsic sources of happiness reside. Notice that many of the best things in life are not things.
Take a few minutes alone or with others to create a second list of intrinsic sources of happiness. Perhaps you can also expand the first list, just for fun.
Feel free to reply to this post with what you discover.
“Follow your heart but take your brain with you.”
—Alfred Adler, 20th Century Austrian MD & Psychotherapist
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As a child, The Wizard of Oz was one of my favorite movies. Given its length and the fact that you had to watch it live with no way to record it, my mom would let us eat dinner carefully on those tacky plastic trays in the living room, gathered around our only TV.
As Dorothy traveled the yellow brick road with her little dog Toto, she teamed up with the Scarecrow, the Tin Man, and the Cowardly Lion — they were hoping the Wonderful Wizard would give them a brain, a heart, and courage, respectively.
Where is your life calling on you to follow your heart and use all of your brains to courageously pursue your dreams and find your way home?
“A good laugh recharges your battery.”
Image from Unsplash by Omar Lopez
Take a close look at the state of the world. Begin by zooming out for a big-picture view, then zoom in to your own communities, family, and lastly, to yourself. Explore the numbers factors that have and are depleting your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual energies.
Take another look at how and in what ways you renew and recharge yourself to take on each new day.
How have you included adequate rest, proper nutrition, daily exercise, hobbies, time with family and friends, and mindfulness efforts into your days?
Where and to what extent have you intentionally brought greater humor and laughter to recharge and reboot your world?
Recently, I have been asking my digital assistant to tell me a joke. Although the jokes are often corny, I do find a few more chuckles that boost my mood and raise the corners of my mouth.
Please reply to this post with a few laughter-inducing activities that recharge your batteries.
“Crying doesn’t indicate that you’re weak. Since birth, it has always been a sign that you’re alive.”
Image from Unsplash by Aliyah Janous
On Veteran’s Day in November, My wife and I were very moved by a news anchor describing an army nurse called to serve our country in World War II. Now 101 years old, this extraordinary woman came from a family in which most members also served in the military.
This normally stoic and forceful news anchor was moved to tears as he shared many heart-warming aspects of her life of generosity, contribution, and service.
Where and how are you currently moved to tears regarding various aspects of your world? How can you more fully see these moisture-filled expressions of emotion as a source of greater aliveness and strength?
“When you throw dirt at people, you’re not doing a thing but losing ground.”
—Zig Ziglar, late American author, salesman, and motivational speaker
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Ted Koppel once said that we all see the same events through different lenses. He seemed to be perplexed that although we live in the same country, we often seem to live in different worlds.
What are you observing in your various personal and professional communities?
Where are you seeing or even participating in dirt throwing?
I recently did a bit of pro-bono coaching to support the organization, Search for Common Ground. With such a great name and organizational purpose, I noticed even highly committed team members occasionally finding themselves on opposite sides of certain issues.
How and in what ways can you dig deeper to find common ground with others in your communities? Where can you plant the seeds of a better more unified world in your own back yard?
“Worry is just imagination used in an unproductive way.”
Image from Unsplash by Ethan Sykes
These days, many people have been pulled to the dark side of imagination. Instead of using our wonderful imagination for creative and positive purposes, we easily slip into worry.
Imagine you are a special kind of meteorologist. You can easily report on inclement weather and potential storms, but you can also change the forecast to sunnier skies with your power of positive intentions and optimism.
Where is your imagination causing you to worry about future events in unproductive ways?
How can and will you bring greater creativity and a positive bias to your thinking when you notice the clouds of worry headed your way?
“Action Precedes Passion.”
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What are the things in life you love the most? What inspires you? What are you passionate about?
Asking these questions of anyone will likely lead to a highly engaging discussion with eyes wide open and perhaps some energetic and animated gestures.
How does one person find passion in fly fishing, while another finds it in preparing sushi?
Where and when did you first notice an initial interest in your passions?
How did this spark lead to the raging fires of engagement over time?
Take note of the early actions you and others took to get hooked on your current passions. Where might future actions and trying new activities generate a few more passionate pursuits in the years ahead?