“Because our independence only extends so far, our lanes are inevitably influenced by fellow travelers and the surrounding currents.”

—Stephen St. Amant, Author of the Savenwood Blog

Image from Unsplash by Roger Victorino

Just like a boat navigating a river, we can steer — but the water’s flow, the wind’s push, and those rowing alongside us influence our direction and speed.

Success and growth are rarely solo journeys; they thrive on connection, collaboration, and mutual influence. Our mindset, habits, and even opportunities are deeply impacted by the people and environments in which we immerse ourselves.

Awareness of this interconnectedness encourages us to choose our companions and surroundings wisely — and to embrace the currents that propel us forward. Success is a delicate dance between independence and influence — no one truly moves alone.

EXERCISE:

Who are the key people and groups in your life that influence your decisions, habits, and mindset? In what ways have these people and your surroundings impacted your path and progress for better or for worse?