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We often think that the game of life is all about winning

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We often think that the game of life is all about winning. Actually, it’s about continuing to play and learning along the way.

—Calm App Reflection

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We often believe that life is all about winning — chasing success, trophies, or the next milestone. But what if the real joy comes from not from the finish line, but from staying in the game?

Life isn’t a race with just one winner — it’s a journey meant for persistent participation and growth.

Every day brings a new opportunity to learn, adapt, and evolve.

Setbacks aren’t signs of defeat — they’re chances to reflect and refine our approach. When we focus on continuing to play, rather than solely on winning, we open ourselves to deeper connections, personal growth, and lasting fulfillment.

So celebrate the process, embrace the lessons, and remember: the true victory is found in playing, learning, and growing — again and again.

EXERCISE:

Consider reading “Finite and Infinite Games” by James P. Carse to explore a vision of life as play and possibility.

 

Successful outcomes are often the result of relatively boring steps done well

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“Successful outcomes are often the result of relatively boring steps done well — with a few error corrections and a few moments of brilliance. It’s never a solid highlight reel.”

—Stephen St. Amant, author of savenwood.com

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Success is rarely the dazzling highlight reel we imagine.

More often, it’s built on a foundation of small, consistent actions — those “boring steps” done well, day after day.

The path to achievement is paved with routine, discipline, and attention to detail.

Along the way mistakes happen, but they’re simply opportunities for error correction and learning.

Occasionally, a spark of brilliance or creativity propels us forward, but these moments are rare.

The real magic lies in persistence and the willingness to keep showing up, even when it’s tedious or unglamorous.

If we only chase the highlights, we miss the quiet power of steady progress.

EXERCISE:

How do you stay motivated during routine, unglamorous tasks?

In what areas can you stay the course and make small corrections that can eventually lead you to some big wins?

Friday Review: Opportunity

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Friday Review: Opportunity

How do you respond to opportunity? What opportunities have you passed up, or grabbed onto? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.

 

“Constraints can unwittingly open so many doors.”

 

 

 

When you receive criticism take a moment to pause. Let this time be a kind of speed bump to slow down and “try on” what is being said.

 

 

 

“Doors don’t slam open.”

 

Live as if you were living a second time

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“Live as if you were living a second time, and as though you had acted wrongly the first time.”

—Victor Frankl, late Jewish-Austrian holocaust survivor and psychiatrist

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For the weekend or occasional golfer, a mulligan is something many players covet.

It’s an opportunity, usually on both the front and back 9’s, to have a do-over on a whiff or missed hit that could sink a decent round. Even if it is never used by a player, they sure appreciate the fact that it’s there just in case.

We all experience many errant shots in life where things go out of bounds and miss their targets. These events often cascade into negative spirals of thinking, and we give up too soon.

EXERCISE:

Give yourself another chance to do better with your next shot. With this personal permission and practice, don’t be surprised if you start shooting some of the best scores of your life.

We live in an ocean of opportunity

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“We live in an ocean of opportunity. Being mindful of which waves to take will give you the ride of your life.”

—Author Unknown

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According to the U.S. Geologic Survey, there are over 332 million cubic miles of water on our planet.

Of this vast volume of water, NOAA’s National Geophysical Data Center estimates that 321 million cubic miles are in our oceans.

Waves on water are caused primarily by wind. If you’ve ever been on a boat or at the beach you’ve surely seen and felt their power.

EXERCISE:

What winds of change have you experienced over the past several years?

How have you embraced the abundance of opportunities all around you?

What support structures are available to help you travel toward new horizons?

Don’t worry if you’re making waves just by being yourself.

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“Don’t worry if you’re making waves just by being yourself. The moon does it all the time.”

—Scott Stabile, Inspirational self-help writer and speaker

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Did you know that the moon only shows us one of its sides? Not until we sent spacecraft and men to orbit our neighbor did we see its other side.

Perhaps this is wise council for each of us as well. Being our true selves and showing the world who we are with all our impact craters may not be such a bad thing.

The moon has been tugging on us for billions of years. We were so fascinated by its pull we decided to visit it in the 60’s and early 70’s, and plan to return in the coming years.

EXERCISE:

How can living true to your nature—even if it makes a few waves—attract the people and opportunities you most desire?

When you receive criticism take a moment to pause

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When you receive criticism take a moment to pause. Let this time be a kind of speed bump to slow down and “try on” what is being said.

—Calm App Reflection

Image from Unsplash by Brett Jordan

No one likes to be criticized and judged. We like the way we are doing our lives and anyone who disapproves is clearly wrong!

Oops! What just happened? How can it be that we, too, may be just as critical of others, and they don’t care for it very much either?

What if instead of blocking this feedback and defending our positions, we simply paused to consider their perspective?

What would happen if we actually looked for the potential value in what was being said?

How might new ways of looking at ourselves create new opportunities for growth and self-improvement?

EXERCISE:

How would slowing down for the seemingly critical speed bumps offered by others make your travel through life smoother?

How might the ideas that are shared actually fit if you “try them on” for size?

If you still find them too tight, loose, itchy, or the wrong color, you can take them off.

Crisis is an unexpected jarring of our ways that brings us into contact with our attendant spirit

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“Crisis is an unexpected jarring of our ways that brings us into contact with our attendant spirit.”

—Mark Nepo, author of The Book of Awakening

How have you and the world around you been jarred in unexpected ways these past few years?

How have these various events been both crises and opportunities at the same time?

Where and how have you been awakened and opened to your attendant spirit? How and in what ways can you move forward given this source of strength at your disposal?

EXERCISE:

How might you offer or seek assistance to and from others in your various communities?

How can we better tap into our collective attendant spirits to recover our footing and balance?

“Sometimes the door closes for us so we might turn and see an open gate to a wider opportunity.

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“Sometimes the door closes for us so we might turn and see an open gate to a wider opportunity.”

—Brendon Burchard, NYT best-selling author & high-performance coach

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Countless doors are closing in response to the global pandemic. To what extent have these efforts to contain and combat this crisis impacted your professional world?

What obstacles are in the way of you living life and conducting business as usual?

In what ways have you and your communities been forced to find other means of pursuing and achieving the outcomes you desire? In what way are closed doors forcing you outside your comfort zone, to see alternative open gates of wider opportunity?

EXERCISE:

Consider discussing today’s quote with members of your work and personal communities, to discover what new gates you can open together.

Friday Review: Opportunity

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FRIDAY REVIEW: OPPORTUNITY

How do you respond to opportunity? What opportunities have you passed up, or grabbed onto? Here are a few opportunity-related posts you may have missed.

 

“It is better to be prepared for an opportunity and not have one than to have one and not be prepared.”

 

 

 

“Your big opportunity may be right where you are now.”

 

 

 

 

“Doors don’t slam open.”