“It takes two people to create a pattern, but only one to change it.”
—Esther Perel, Belgian psychotherapist
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Take a few minutes today to do a relationship review.
Closely examine the health of your most significant personal and professional interactions.
What word or phrase would describe the pattern of these engagements?
Where do you experience difficulties getting along and find yourself judging and being critical of others?
Most of us would love — from time to time — to have a magic wand to wave over others, to have them think and behave as we’d like.
Although we have no such power over anyone else, we do have the magic touch when it comes to our own ability to change ourselves.
Display Tuli Kupferberg’s quote, “When patterns are broken new world will emerge” in a well-trafficked place in your life.
What patterns can and will you break to have a new world of more successful relationships emerge?
“How can you break out of old patterns and learn to look at life anew?”
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Today’s quote is cousin to one of my favorites, by Tuli Kupferberg:
“When Patterns, are Broken, New Worlds Will Emerge.”
Examining these nuggets of wisdom may have some shortcomings if we use them only as thought exercises. Shifting our paradigms, altering our mental models, and simply looking through different perceptional filters is not enough.
We must also act in new and different ways if new worlds are to be realized.
An intention to act without action leaves us where or how we are—or perhaps worse.
As you look at life anew, what do you plan to actually do?
Feel free to reply to this post regarding the actions you took today.
– Edward de Bono, doctor and author
Years ago, I read A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink. The premise of this book was based on the importance and value of right-brain/non-linear thinking. Pink pointed to some of the critical limiting factors related to left-brain or linear thinking: the value of this type of thinking has been decreased due to the advent of technology.
How much of your day do you spend on right-brain versus left-brain activities?
How can you break some of your established patterns and look at your world differently, to develop your creative mind?
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