Friday Review: Negativity


What role does negativity play in your life? Here are a few posts related to negativity you may have missed. Click the links to read the full message.


And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.





Complaining is Draining.





Life is like photography. You use the negatives to develop.




Life is like photography

“Life is like photography. You use the negatives to develop.”

—Author Unknown

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Many people ignore, suppress, or try to run away from the negatives in life. If you, too, utilize this strategy, try being a bit more like a photographer.

Consider how the best at this craft capture the extraordinary pictures, the ones that “WOW” us. Examine their observatory and reflective skills, their understanding of light and shadow, and other aspects of photography that bring out the brilliance of each shot.


How can you more fully examine and reflect on the negatives in your world to develop and have an even more wonderful life?

no matter where you go, there you are

“And remember, no matter where you go, there you are.”

– Confucius, Chinese philosopher


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As a positive, optimistic, and upbeat person most of the time, it troubles me to see a lot of negativity in the world. Two related negative traits I observe often are blaming and victimization. When people demonstrate these qualities, the focus is always on others as the cause of a problem, and themselves as innocent victims.

Confucius is suggesting, with this quote, that we are always present in these situations, and if you dig a bit deeper, a part of this current reality puzzle.


How can you take a larger percentage of responsibility for the events and circumstances that make up your world? Where would adjusting your perspective, attitude, or point of view provide a shift in the way that people and events affect you?