“Every day is a journey, and the journey itself is home.”
—Matsuso Basho, 15th Century Japanese Haiku Master
Image from Unsplash by James Lee
There’s no place like home is a saying of great comfort for most of us. It was Dorothy’s famous statement upon her return from visiting the land of OZ.
We all know about her journey to see the wizard and all the characters and experiences she had along the way. Perhaps she—and we—missed a lot along our journeys by holding on to an I’m not there yet perspective at the many places we found ourselves on our paths.
What if, instead, we saw each of our journeys as one of many homes, and experienced each moment of our life as the perfect place to be?
Where and when do you feel most at home?
How would expanding this view to include all your everyday journeys to have an even more richly rewarding life?
“Never mistake a clear view for a short distance.”
—Mark Spain, top Real Estate Broker
Image from SpaceNews
Have you ever looked up at the night sky and seen Mars without a telescope?
If you have, you were viewing the red planet – which won’t appear red – at a distance of about 34 million miles, when at its closest to Earth.
Although the math is complicated, and there is no way to travel to Mars in a straight line – which, if you could, would take 39 days – here is a list of a few missions and the time it took for the journey:
Mariner 9, the first spacecraft to orbit Mars (1971): 168 days
Viking 1, the first U.S. craft to land on Mars (1995): 304 days
Mars Science Laboratory (2011): 254 days
To what degree are you fully prepared to go the distance on one or more personal or professional goals, that you can clearly see ahead?
“All rising to great place is by a winding stair.”
—Sir Francis Bacon, 16th Century Lord Chancellor of England
Image from MTM
When I was a young boy, my family took a trip to New York City to see some sights and take in a show at Radio City Music Hall. We also had a fancy meal that included chocolate mousse in an edible chocolate shell. This was a very big deal even though we lived nearby in Philadelphia.
A highlight of our visit was walking up the winding staircase to the crown of the Statue of Liberty on Liberty Island, to view the harbor and the New York City skyline.
I distinctly remember the aching and burning in my legs as we climbed to this extraordinary vantage point.
What current or future staircases are you climbing – or will you climb – to reach the great places you intend to go? What will make the considerable effort worth the winding journey?
“The knowledge of the world is only to be acquired in the world, and not in a closet.”
-Lord Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of Chesterfield
Image of Milford Sound from Flickr by Bernard Spragg
What do the following places have in common?
Bay of Islands
For those who wish to travel more, these are wondrous destinations in New Zealand.
I visited these amazing places as part of my 60th birthday adventure. Getting out into the world can be transformational! In just a few weeks, I felt I took a quantum leap in my awareness and knowledge of geography, history, culture, plants, animals, and many other subjects.
How and in what ways can you investigate and explore your world more fully to add and expand to you awareness and knowledge? Consider scheduling one of your most exciting “Bucket List” travel adventures soon.
“A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.”
—Tim Cahill, travel writer
In early May, my wife Wendy and I celebrated forty years together and 36 years of marriage by taking a river cruise along the Danube between Passau, Germany and Budapest, the capital of Hungary. We’ve taken many other cruises over the years. What made this one special—beyond each other’s company—was that there were only 136 other passengers, and about 40 crew members.
One of the most pleasant surprises was the number of friendships we made with this intimate group of fascinating people from around the globe.
Who are the friends in your world that have made your life journey meaningful and rewarding? How can you continue your journey with a greater emphasis on using the development of close, caring friendships as a measure of a meaningful life?
We live in a society that is addicted to results. We measure almost everything. The majority of business leaders would agree that “what gets measured gets done”. Even the world of dance has gotten into the act through reality TV shows such as “Dancing with the Stars” or “So You Think You can Dance”.
On the other hand, dance, especially celebratory dance, has no goal or objective except for the experience of joy and self-expression. You’ll never see a judge with a paddle indicating that a bride and groom got 8/10 for their first dance as husband and wife!
What are some other “life dances” where you more fully enjoy the steps along the way and are not simply looking to finish or reach some destination or outcome?
The quote above makes me think of the phrase “different strokes for different folks.” If we all thought the same things and liked the same things, we wouldn’t have so many choices in our world.
Consider the following list and notice your own preferences:
Your favorite food
Your favorite ice-cream
Your favorite color
Your favorite style of music
Your favorite TV show
Your favorite sport
Your favorite type of vacation
Your favorite hobby
Your favorite way to spend the weekend
Go out of your way today to discover various roads that people in your professional and personal lives take toward their own fulfillment and happiness.
Perhaps you can take their example, choose your own path, and take the road less travelled by. It just may make all the difference. (You may also want to read Robert Frost’s Poem “The Road Not Taken.”)
“The journey of a thousand miles begins and ends with one step.”
– Lao Tzu, founder of Taoism
We have all heard this famous quote a thousand times. What about all those steps in between?
Of course we would all acknowledge the important of taking the initiative with the first step toward our goals. Once we have done so, we are at a new beginning point, ready to take the next first step.
In the beginning, it may be difficult to move toward our goals – however, with persistence and the development of this habit to act, we will be much more likely to find ourselves taking that last step to reach our desired destinations.
Identify at least one professional or personal goal that you deeply desire, where you find yourself procrastinating or simply stopped in your tracks.
Brainstorm alone or with others the first, second, etc. steps toward its achievement.
Before you know it, you will have arrived.
Please reply to this message and let me know the goals you choose to pursue – and what happens.