What is the basis for your determination in life? Here are a few related posts you may have missed.
“Work hard in silence and let success make the noise.”
“Don’t count the days; make the days count.”
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When we let our imaginations soar, keeping our “heads in the clouds” can feel expansive, hopeful, and even magical.
Big dreams and lofty visions often fuel our motivation and push us beyond ordinary limits. Yet, if we drift too far from the present moment, we may overlook the small but important details of daily living — the “puddles” that can dampen our enthusiasm and slow our progress.
Balancing vision with awareness helps us stay grounded without losing momentum.
By lifting our gaze toward what’s possible while keeping one foot firmly planted in reality, we increase our chances of walking a clearer path — one that avoids unnecessary setbacks while still moving us closer to the brighter horizons we seek.
EXERCISE:
Where in your life do you “keep your head in the clouds” – dreaming big, but missing many practical details of life that matter?
What small habits can help keep you grounded as you pursue bigger goals and avoid unnecessary setbacks?
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Any effort spent trying to look competent is energy stolen from actually becoming competent.
We polish resumes, curate images, drop jargon in meetings — yet all this theater distracts from the harder, unglamorous work of skill-building and mastery.
The irony?
True competence makes perception irrelevant.
A surgeon doesn’t need a slick social media profile to earn trust. A coach doesn’t need to brag if their clients are thriving.
Chasing perception is like painting rust — it looks good briefly but erodes from within.
Competence however, compounds.
Every hour invested in learning, practice, and reflection makes you unshakable.
EXERCISE:
To what degree do you put considerable time and effort into appearing competent?
Does the phrase “Fake it till you make it” ring true for you and others in your communities?
What steps can and will you take to make your competence an irrelevant topic of discussion?
—Seneca the Younger, ancient Roman Stoic Philosopher
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Taking time to relax isn’t an indulgence — it’s vital for clear thinking and personal growth.
When we pause, step away, and allow our minds room to breathe, we return to our work and relationships with renewed clarity.
Instead of pushing relentlessly, give yourself permission for a mindful walk, family time, or a quiet moment. These simple breaks sharpen your perspective and boost creative insights.
Just as a well-rested athlete performs better, a rested mind leads to better decisions, deeper connections, and greater overall well-being.
Your productivity and joy depend on it.
EXERCISE:
Create a list of five to ten practical ways for you to apply Seneca’s wisdom to relax your mind for sharper, improved thinking.
Block out time in your schedule to engage in at least two of these activities today. How can and will you make this practice a habit going forward?
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Don’t discount the past — each moment, every twist (and even detours) have shaped the person you are today.
There are no wrong turns or dead ends if each experience teaches, strengthens, and deepens understanding.
Rather than regretting decisions or wishing for a different path, honor the journey that brought you here.
Challenges, successes, and failures all offer wisdom and growth, weaving together the unique story only you can share.
Embrace your past with gratitude, knowing it has prepared you for all that lies ahead.
This very moment is the sum of every step taken, a testament to resilience and self-discovery.
Move forward with confidence, trusting that your story is unfolding just as it should.
EXERCISE:
Explore The Power of Regret by Dan Pink to embrace and understand how regrets from the past can help you make smarter choices, perform better, and live a more meaningful life.
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Decide to decide and then take the leap. You will land on your feet more than you think.
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Job shadowing isn’t just for students or those starting out — it’s a powerful tool at any age.
Whether you’re 25, 45, or 65, stepping into someone else’s workday can open your eyes to new perspectives, spark fresh ideas, and even reignite passion for your own career.
For those considering a midlife career shift, shadowing helps you explore options without a major leap.
For seasoned professionals, it’s a chance to stay curious, expand knowledge, and connect with the next generation.
And for retirees, it offers meaningful engagement and continued learning. Curiosity has no age limit — shadowing reminds us we can all grow, adapt, and stay inspired at any stage of life.
EXERCISE:
Who would you like to shadow for a day?
How might these experiences spark new ideas and remind you that curiosity and personal growth have no expiration date?
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When people hear the word change, their first reaction is often resistance.
Change gets cast as something heavy, disruptive, or even threatening.
We see it as an anchor, weighing us down, pinning us in place, keeping us from moving forward with ease and confidence.
But what if we misunderstood the nature of change?
Perhaps change is not an anchor. Maybe it’s a wave and our job is not to resist it, but to ride it!
EXERCISE:
Consider reading of re-reading the book Who Moved my Cheese? An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in your Life by Spencer Johnson.
This quick, memorable parable distills essential lessons about anticipating, adapting to, and thriving through change.
—Christine Evangelou — U.K. poet
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If a crowded mind leaves no space for a peaceful heart, consider your mind’s clutter like shoes in the hallway: Each worry and thought is a trip hazard to calm.
Serenity can’t squeeze in where endless to-do lists and past regrets pile up.
Consider sweeping the mental mess with mindful moments: deep breaths, laughter, or jotting worries on paper to clear the floor.
Notice how the heart sighs in relief when the mind steps aside. A peaceful heart isn’t found in chasing every thought — it’s found in the gentle gaps, open spaces, and intentional pauses throughout our days.
EXERCISE:
Close your eyes and picture a broom sweeping through your mind, gathering all your worries and stray thoughts into a pile and letting it go.
Consider asking others in your life for their best strategies to make room for a more peaceful heart.
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Being a person worthy of respect, kindness, and love starts with how one treats others — even when no one is watching.
It means choosing honesty, offering support, and listening deeply, displaying compassion in both big and small moments.
Being worthy isn’t earned through accomplishment or status, but through daily choices to be patient, forgiving, and open-minded.
By nurturing these qualities, relationships flourish and mutual trust grows. When respect, kindness, and love are cultivated within, they naturally extend outward, creating a ripple effect in the world.
Living this way is a lifelong journey, a series of intentions and actions that make others feel valued.
Ultimately, the person who continuously strives to embody these virtues is truly worthy of these gifts.
EXERCISE:
Who are the people in your life most worthy of respect, kindness, and love?
How can you apply their good examples to coach yourself to be worthy of these gifts as well?
