Discover the home in your head. Make it a place of love, comfort, wisdom, peace and beauty.
—Calm App Reflection
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Home Sweet Home is perhaps the most common phrase on door mats across America. It’s a hopeful saying we wish were true at all times but unfortunately, we often come up short of its aspirational message.
Physical clutter, challenging relationships, and even our inner demons sometime leave a bitter taste we prefer not to swallow.
Although external factors are not always in our control, much work can be done to clean up the home in our head.
Instead of getting out the vacuum, dust pans, and rags, how would greater love, wisdom, and a peaceful heart help you experience the comfort, beauty, and sweetness you desire?
What actions can and will you take today to bring more of these wonderful qualities into your life?
Seek out the peace and comfort in the familiar. Enjoy the taste of the same fruit twice.
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What’s your favorite movie?
How many times have you seen it?
What’s your favorite song?
How often do you play it?
What’s your favorite comfort food?
You get the idea…
With the barrage of media influences these days, there seems to be a lot of pressure to always seek novelty in our lives.
Constantly seeking what’s new to check one more thing off our bucket lists seems to be contagious. This excessive busyness and urgency for more and new rarely offers the enduring peace and comfort we truly want.
Where do you seek and find comfort in your daily pursuits?
How does savoring the familiar things in life offer this satisfaction and sweetness?
“Sometimes, the only way to discover who you are and what life you should lead is to do less planning and more living – to burst the double bubble of comfort and convention and just do stuff.”
– Daniel Pink, business author
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When was the last time you watched young children play? Rarely, if ever, have I seen them plan out any activity. They simple leap into most endeavors with enthusiasm and a bit of reckless abandon.
As you observe these events, note the level of joy, pleasure, fulfillment, and happiness occurring before your eyes, and listen to your own inner voice saying, “I want what they’re having.”
Instead of planning and sharpening the saws of life, where would “bursting the double bubble of comfort and convention” make the biggest difference in your professional and personal life?
“Try to be like the turtle – at ease in your own shell.”
– Bill Copeland, Australian athlete
Turtles and tortoises are interesting creatures. Below are a few facts:
1. They actually make a sound, even though they do not have vocal chords.
2. Tortoises orbited the moon before astronauts did, in the Soviet space probe Zond 5.
3. They don’t have ears – but can perceive low-pitched sounds.
4. They are nearly as old as the dinosaurs, with examples going back to over 200 million years ago.
5. They can see color and have a preference for red, orange, and yellow.
Take a few moments to look within yourself and discover the wonders of you, to be at ease in your own shell.
If this is a bit challenging, consider requesting such feedback from those close to you.