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The best thing one can do when it is raining

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“The best thing one can do when it is raining is to let it rain.”

—Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, 19th Century American Poet and Professor

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Today’s nugget of wisdom embodies a philosophy of acceptance and resilience, embracing life’s inevitable challenges without resistance.

Instead of fighting life’s storms, Longfellow chooses to flow with them, illustrating a mindset that likely contributed to his long life.

His approach encourages us to accept difficulties calmly and adaptively, reducing stress and fostering greater peace of mind.

In a world often obsessed with control, Longfellow’s wisdom reminds us that sometimes, surrendering to circumstances can be the healthiest path.

Letting the rain fall — literally and metaphorically — might be a key to enduring vitality and happiness.

EXERCISE:

How often do you find yourself fighting with the rainy days of your life?

Take a few minutes to watch this uplifting clip from the movie “Singing in the Rain” with Gene Kelly to shift your perspective on at least some of the downpours in your days.

“The path of least resistance is a terrible teacher.”

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“The path of least resistance is a terrible teacher.”

—Ryan Holiday, American author and host of the podcast The Daily Stoic

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Look back on your life and consider your most impactful teachers.

Which of them left a lasting impression where — even today — you still refer to their lessons?

How often do you recall wanting to be challenged and stretched versus going for that easy “A”?

In today’s convenience-centric world, the goal most often seems to focus on maximizing pleasure and minimizing pain.

What has this approach taught us and how has it weakened our spirits and resolve?

EXERCISE:

Consider reading Robert Fritz’s book, The Path of Least Resistance to see what it has to offer.

Feel free to let me know your top take-aways as you wrestle with this concept.

“No man steps in the same river twice.”

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“No man steps in the same river twice.”

—Heraclitus, Ancient Greek, pre-Socratic, Ionian philosopher

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When you examine the pace of change in your life, what do you see?

When you look at your various communities, where do you notice small, subtle changes? Where are the tectonic shifts far more noticeable?

Just as a river changes its flow and its course over time, our lives are always flowing from one day to the next. To fight or resent such change is like grabbing a handful of air.

EXERCISE:

Where are you currently upset and angry about the course of your life?

Where are you trying to paddle upstream against the currents of change?

How can and will you instead step into the new river of each day, embracing and influencing your journey?

 

“Does refusing to go to the gym count as resistance training?”

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“Does refusing to go to the gym count as resistance training?”

—Author Unknown

Image of a guy in bed early morning

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How much sleep do you get on a typical night during the week? What about the weekends? For most people I know, the numbers vary considerably.

Yesterday morning, my body woke at the normal time, but given it was the weekend and I was extra tired, I passed up my morning workout and went back to bed for two more hours of needed rest.

My resistance to going to the gym was completely appropriate given that I needed more time to refresh and recharge after a full work week, which had already included numerous visits to the gym.

EXERCISE:

Where do you push, stretch, and challenge yourself to grow and expand your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual potential?

Where might stepping back and saying, “NO” to some of these growth opportunities be the best choice, needed to progress optimally through your life?