“Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.”
—August Wilson, 20th Century American Playwright
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Consider the following statement on a one-to-five scale in which one is absolutely not and five is definitely yes.
I have a clear view of where I am and where I am going in my life.
This statement is part of my discovery process to help determine a potential client’s readiness to move their lives forward with a supportive coaching relationship.
For optimal success, these relationships benefit significantly through the deep and thoughtful process of examining and wrestling with their limiting beliefs and habits. Through careful illumination and generous self-forgiveness, each individual will most likely realize far more of their fullest personal and professional potential.
What steps can and will you take to more fully examine your own demons to help your angels sing? Consider picking up a copy of the book Taming your Gremlins by Rick Carson as a way to open this door of deeper discovery.
“Forgiveness is a funny thing. It warms the heart and cools the sting.”
—William Arthur Ward, 20th Century inspirational author
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Many people are suffering these days. Without question, life comes with ups and downs, making our journeys bumpy and filled with twists and turns.
Forgiveness is a quality we admire and appreciate in people we respect and wish to emulate. Many of us find forgiveness quite difficult to express on a consistent basis despite the fact that it truly “warms the heart and cools the sting.”
What is it in our wiring that can make forgiving others and even forgiving ourselves so difficult?
How often do you make yourself and others wrong for their mistakes, shortcomings, and acts that hurt others?
What would be the value of finding greater compassion, empathy, and forgiveness within yourself to travel life’s road a bit more smoothly?
-Julian Casablancas, lyricist (from the song “11th Dimension”)
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Perhaps no single human trait causes more damage than the fundamental need most of us have to be right.
When we assume this stance and other have an alternative point of view, they are, of course, wrong.
This vicious cycle often causes both parties to do and say things that are hurtful and often damaging.
Look at your own professional or personal worlds to examine where you see yourself inside this cycle. Notice how long it has been occurring, and just how much time and attention it takes from your days—time which could be spent far more enjoyably and productively.
How would the practice of forgiveness—even if those who have hurt you are not sorry —take the additional burden of these events off your shoulders? How would that help you lead a lighter and more fulfilling life?