Vulnerability is a source of so many wonderful aspects of life. You must, however, let go to receive them.
—Calm App Reflection
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It’s counterintuitive that in order to receive what we want and need, we must let go of things we have. After all, if we hold on tightly to things, we get to keep what we have indefinitely.
What if we desire love, acceptance, adventure, and the feeling of belonging to our various communities?
What must we let go of to receive these very human desires?
What’s at risk when we desire the rewards of a full and happy life?
Where and how do you avoid the risks of being vulnerable?
How do you protect yourself from the bumps and bruises life can dish out?
Consider exploring the books and other works of Brene Brown to discover insights you may not have considered.
“You will find that it is necessary to let things go, simply for the reason that they are heavy.”
—C. JoyBell C., American Philosophical Author
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I recently met two remarkable women at an event. Sam was one of the featured speakers at the event, and Pat was an event participant, as was I. They both shared their wondrous—and independent—stories of letting go of their possessions to travel the world more lightly.
Beyond the excitement and vitality conveyed in their adventures was the amazing, contagious impact the otters people at the conference experienced in hearing their stories. Many were inspired to “downsize” one or more aspect of their lives.
In what ways can you release and let go of the people and things that weigh down your life?
Select at least one specific action you will take within the next 24 hours to begin to lighten your load, and consider responding to this post with your decision.
“Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.”
—C.S. Lewis, 19th century novelist, poet, and essayist
Over the course of my 21 years as a coach, I’ve seen just about every sorrow and success a person can experience. Peaks and valleys, stepping up and sliding down, are par for the course and no one is immune to life’s fluctuations.
I’ve also noticed that the people with the greatest sense of balance, happiness, and satisfaction are those who experience life events for whatever they are, and don’t hold on too long. They’ve learned to let go in order to move on.
Examine your own life or the lives of those close to you. Is assistance needed to let go of past painful experiences in order to move forward? Consider requesting or offering assistance where appropriate.
“You can only lose what you cling to.”
— Health Magazine published by Dr. Burke’s Sanitarium, of Sonoma County, California December 1905
Are there people in your life you would describe as “clingy”?
Perhaps they hold on tightly, invade your personal space, have an overly strong attachment or dependency, to you or another, or resist letting go of the past.
What response does their “clinginess” elicit from others?
Today’s quote implies that the more we cling to something, the more likely we are to lose it – whether that something is an inanimate object, or another person.
How might loosening your grip on the things you value lead to a more abundant life?