“A well-developed sense of humor is the pole that adds balance to your steps as you walk the tightrope of life.”
—William Arthur Ward, 20th Century Author of inspirational maxims
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Are you a student of leadership?
If so, I highly suggest you watch the Netflix film, Pope Francis – A Man of His Word.
The film demonstrates a man who lives what he preaches and who has gained the trust of people across the world, from all religions, cultures, and social backgrounds.
His universal wisdom and message of hope provides views on many global questions and issues including social justice, immigration, ecology, wealth inequality, materialism, and the role of the family.
Toward the end of this film he suggests that each of us can participate in this global community effort by wearing a smile more often, and by developing a better sense of humor to add more balance to our lives.
Consider watching this important film with family and friends. Allow time after the viewing for discussion and dialogue to see how you can and will benefit from his universal message of hope.
“Most good resolutions start too late and end too soon.”
—Arnold Glasow, 20th Century American Humorist
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The New Year’s resolution to be healthy and fit is beginning to hit a speed bump at my fitness club. During the first weeks of the year, the parking lot was full, there were lines for the showers, and far too many soiled towels on the floor.
At the same time, all sorts of treats, including cookies, cakes, and candy were popping up in the kitchen at work, as the new “Salad Warriors” eliminated them from their homes.
Discipline and self-restraint are now waning a bit, and far too many of us are giving in to the comfort foods and warm covers associated with winter.
What are the resolutions that you either started too late or ended too soon?
How might you incorporate a more rigorous accountability structure to tackle these priority areas once and for all?
Please consider reading or re-reading Steven Covey’s classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People as one of your first steps in this process.
“One aspect of a successful relationship is not just how compatible you are, but how you deal with your incompatibility.”
—Daniel Goleman, Founder of the Emotional Intelligence Movement
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Did you know that in western cultures, over 90 percent of people marry? Healthy marriages are good for the couple, and for their children. Unfortunately, 40-50 percent of first marriages end in divorce, and the divorce rate for subsequent marriages is even higher.
During the courting/dating phase of a relationship, compatibility is a key element to the initial connection. Over time, partners begin seeing aspects of one another they were a bit blind to during the “show only your best side” phase.
Goleman and other experts on successful marriage point to numerous success factors – see the list below – that help marriage stand the test of time.
- Respecting each other’s differences
- Sharing common values
- Open and honest communication
- Being fair and respectful
- Having a sense of humor
- Demonstrating appreciation and gratitude
- Honesty and integrity
- Sensitivity, compassion, empathy
- Seeing your marriage as a partnership and working as a team
- Forgiveness for your partner and yourself
On this Valentine’s Day, consider having a discussion with your partner regarding this list. What efforts can and will you take to make your relationship more successful and fulfilling?
“If there was only the ‘right’ way to do something, Fosbury would never have flopped.”
—John Whitmore, 20th Century South African Surfer
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When was the last time you asked for directions?
When was the last time you asked more than one person for directions to the same destination?
With today’s technology, we check Google maps, Waze, or other tech tools to see what is recommended. What is the fastest route? The most scenic? Which has the fewest tolls?
What is the best, or in the case of today’s quote, the “right” way to go?
Where do right and wrong apply in your personal and professional communities? Where do you find yourself on the same page, or on the other side of decisions, resulting in friction or upset?
How and in what ways can and will you be far more open and accepting of other’s right to be right?
“We remain young to the degree that our ambitions are greater than our memories.”
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How long do you expect to live?
Dan Sullivan, the co-founder of Strategic Coach, expects to live 156 years. Over the years, he has had a voracious passion for longevity and optimal health. In the Exponential Wisdom Podcast, he and Peter Diamandis explore where the world is headed by discussing cutting edge technologies and global trends.
Exploring topics such as gene editing, stem cells, artificial intelligence, and nanotechnology, they look into the multi-disciplinary crystal ball of the future of health care. Peter Diamandis, founder of Human Longevity, Inc., expects to live 700 years. He is best known for his X-Prize Foundation and competition, and the commercialization of space. Sullivan and Diamandis encourage the rest of us to release the idea of traditional retirement. They council us to stay actively engaged in making our future ambitions far more extraordinary than our past.
Consider reading Peter’s book Abundance, or Dan’s book The Laws of Lifetime Growth, to help guide you to an even more extraordinary future.
Check out their podcast on this and other provocative subjects at exponentialwisdom.com
“The Earth needs a good lawyer.”
—Seth Godin, American Author
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These days it appears that the next gold rush is in space. Whether it is mining asteroids or creating settlements on Mars, there is no question there are lots of big bets being made by such pioneers as Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk, Richard Branson, among others.
Given the trends we observe today, what shape will planet Earth be in by the time, decades from now, we realize all the possibilities we see today?
Even if we create a settlement on Mars with a million people, there will still be eight billion, nine hundred and ninety-nine million people left here on Earth. They will be looking into the night sky, possibly wondering, What have we done?
Where and in what ways are you a protector/defender of our beautiful Earth? What immediate actions can all of us take to not ever need a lawyer to stand up for Mother Nature?
“Don’t stop when you are tired. Stop when you are done.”
—David Goggins, American ultramarathon runner
Image of David Goggins from Madbarz
A job well done is a wonderful phrase, whether said by us, or a respected colleague.
The power and satisfaction of completing something big or small has a way of releasing lots of those “feel good” hormones associated with happiness, pleasure, and overall life satisfaction.
On the other hand, consider all those half-done, in-process projects in either your personal or professional worlds – especially the ones that don’t quite light you up with enthusiasm. What emotions and feelings are associated with these matters? How often do you stop your efforts due to some level of fatigue or frustration, or perhaps procrastinate and decide to get back to these efforts later rather than sooner?
Where and on what priority matter could you use the experience of being tired as a trigger or catalyst to dig deeper into your own grit and persistence to “get’er done”?
“Only the guy who isn’t rowing has time to rock the boat.”
—Jean-Paul Sartre, 20th Century French Philosopher and Playwright
Image from Unsplash by Josh Calabrese
What is your immediate interpretation of today’s quote? Is being a boat rocker a bad thing or a good thing? How much does it depends on where the boat is headed?
Most people, on many occasions, tend to go along to get along. They do not want to be seen as individuals who are not pulling their weight. If and when they do stop rowing and stand up to look around, the other rowers will often apply peer pressure to have them sit down and get back with the program.
Conformity and going with the flow just doesn’t suit the vision, values, and sense of self for many folks these days. They feel compelled to stand up and look toward an alternate horizon more in alignment with their true selves. The boat rocking may result in them jumping ship or being forced to walk the plank due to the apparent disconnect or perceived mutiny observed by the boat’s captain and crew.
Where are your personal and professional boats headed? In which situations is it warranted to put more of your legs and back into your rowing efforts, or stand up and rock the boat, to either change its direction or jump ship?