“Only the guy who isn’t rowing has time to rock the boat.”
—Jean-Paul Sartre, 20th Century French Philosopher and Playwright
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What is your immediate interpretation of today’s quote? Is being a boat rocker a bad thing or a good thing? How much does it depends on where the boat is headed?
Most people, on many occasions, tend to go along to get along. They do not want to be seen as individuals who are not pulling their weight. If and when they do stop rowing and stand up to look around, the other rowers will often apply peer pressure to have them sit down and get back with the program.
Conformity and going with the flow just doesn’t suit the vision, values, and sense of self for many folks these days. They feel compelled to stand up and look toward an alternate horizon more in alignment with their true selves. The boat rocking may result in them jumping ship or being forced to walk the plank due to the apparent disconnect or perceived mutiny observed by the boat’s captain and crew.
Where are your personal and professional boats headed? In which situations is it warranted to put more of your legs and back into your rowing efforts, or stand up and rock the boat, to either change its direction or jump ship?
“Direction is so much more important than speed. Many are going nowhere fast.”
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In the battle between the urgent and the important aspects of life, urgency and the need to get things done fast seem to be winning.
Unfortunately for many, levels of life satisfaction and fulfillment are declining, often with considerable consequences to our health and overall well-being.
Perhaps some course corrections are in order for your personal or professional life, especially if you are pursuing paths others have mapped out for you.
Where can you slow down or even stop to look within to ask your sources of inner wisdom for directions before you gas up and head full speed ahead toward your life destiny?
“In your life the safe route and the best route may not be the same route.”
What is your perspective or personal philosophy on these phrases?:
- No risk no reward
- The biggest risk is not taking any
- Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all
- Do one thing every day that scares you
- Leap and the net will appear
Select the phrases that resonate the most for you and display them on a Post-it Note in a highly visible location in your personal or professional world.
What action will you take to put yourself on the best route to more fully realize your most important and meaningful life goals?
Feel free to reply to this post with the quotes you selected and the actions you plan to take.
“Sometimes in the winds of change we find our true direction.”
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Have you noticed the increase in super-storms in recent years – storms with winds over 150 miles per hour and distinctive forces with serious, sometimes deadly consequences? Following these events we always see the resilience and tenacity of people, rebuilding and renewing their worlds.
The pace of life and the winds of change throughout the world have picked up speed because of social, political, and technological factors. How are you surviving, or better yet, thriving, in these dynamic times?
What inner work related to your vision, values, beliefs, and talents will you do today? How will your internal Gyroscopic Guidance System help you find and continue on your truest path regardless of what storms come your way?
“Some people cross your path and change your whole direction.”
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Those who have been following The Quotable Coach for some time already have a mental “time machine,” and have taken various trips into the past and future. If you have not yet built your imaginary time machine, take a moment to do so now.
Today’s trip takes you back in time to visit the friends, family, teachers, mentors, and coaches who have made a positive and lasting difference in your life.
Examine the way in which they were “there for you,” guiding, supporting, and even providing tough love to help you discover and pursue your destiny.
Should any of these people still be around, find a way to acknowledge and thank them for the difference they made in your life.
Where can you play a similar role to support a special person in your personal or professional world?
– James Allen, philosopher and writer
Life purpose, making a difference, and living a meaningful life are fundamental to happiness.
How can you find your purpose and life direction? How will you know when you are heading the right way, and when you’re getting close to arriving?
List your top 20 – 30 core values.
Cut this list in half, and then in half again, to get to the real core.
Next, create a life vision statement, using all of the final list and perhaps most of the second list of values. Wordsmith this vision until you feel it is 100% you.
Now use your vision statement as the context to inspire your actions in every area of your life: it can help you become happier and more fulfilled.
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